[1: 200 of 10,000] Thanking A Nemesis

They say that what we hate on someone is very revealing on what we don’t like about ourselves; having that in mind I am not sure if the next story is justifiable.

There is one particular person that I found arrogant for not accepting constructive criticism. She believed she had always done the right thing and have continuously fallen dropping contradictory statements. I have to admit that I hated her because of her displeasing attitude and I don’t appreciate the e-mails that she sent. Just typing about her now still makes my blood boils a little and I consider her the one person I don’t want to ever pretend speaking too ever again. I wanted a sincere apology from her and I don’t mind giving her mine if in some way I offended her on pointing what she had done wrong. I want her to perform better at work but maybe she’s in the wrong career in the first place and I never got the chance to talk to her about it because she won’t listen and I won’t teach to someone who doesn’t want to learn.

Along the way we will really meet people who get under our skin. Did the incident really reveal my own weakness? Yes, because I hired her only to terminate her in the end. She is a person I don’t like and may never have her as a friend and I accept that. I am grateful for meeting her because she made me realize that people can surprise us in an extreme way and there is more to learn about myself and others.