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In Question on September 4, 2021 at 10:07 AM
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Since it’s weekend and to have a break from writing about my self-help business I’ll do something fun and try to answer the 36 Questions that could lead to loving someone, and how about starting with loving myself even more. Here I am I thought I’m going away from self-help but it’s absolutely ingrained in me that I can’t switch it off, plus I encourage everyone to always start loving oneself. (Questions Source: The New York Times by Daniel Jones)

Set I

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest? Jesus and ask him questions about balancing anger and love. He was on fire speaking up about injustice during the Roman times and yet loving enough to surrender to forgiveness and end his life in torture.

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way? Yes to spread words about recognizing our divinity and power to do what’s truly loving, peaceful, blissful and co-create consciously.

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why? Sometimes just to get it right the first time without fuzz but most of the time I don’t like rehearsing anything. I always love free flow speech and that gets me in trouble because I’m capable of speaking my mind without filter but with full raw emotions.

4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you? I have good nourishing delicious food, I got inspired, I laughed, I sweat and I showed kindness to someone.

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else? Singing to myself right now while I answer these questions. I don’t remember singing to someone, probably singing with someone while driving.

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want? I will retain the body so it will allow me to still keep learning and reading new things without using eye glasses and seeing beautiful places for the first time without using a walker.

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die? Peaceful death because I know I like where I’m going. It’s always a soul adventure and it’s just one dimension to another.

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common. Passionate about life’s adventures, spiritually awake and deliberate to make this world better than we found it.

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful? To be alive and have all the different experiences that only human life can give. I’m also grateful that right now, all is well, I always feel blessed and supported to do whatever I fancy.

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? Make my parents learn about unconditional love, redefine success without the construct of cultural pressure and embrace their truths without shame if it give them joy. The earlier that they see their intrinsic worth, the easier for me to move through the world with a sense of empowerment and not spend more time bleeding and healing generational wounds.

11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible. I was born in Asia and now living in the Middle East. I was raised with freedom and I always aim to have more of that in this lifetime. My parents passed away for such a young age due to health complications and that drive me stronger to live as stress free as I can. I have two siblings that I love and trust and I must say they are pretty lucky to have me as the eldest and responsible sister. I spiritually awake during the global pandemic and I’ve never seen people the same way again. I’m enjoying my stay here on Earth but sometimes it’s also difficult that I want to check out but when I am well fed, rested, loved, inspired and created something amazing I feel like I could conquer the world and a lifetime is too short.

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? Intuitive without doubting the messages.

Set II

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? What’s my greatest contribution to human race so I can work on it but on the mean time I’ll follow the nudges of my desires.

14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it? I’m already doing it but I need more discipline to finish all my beautiful projects that gives me fulfillment, happiness and expansion of consciousness.

15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life? Being alive right now and able to say life is really good and I know what true and pure love really means – unconditional.

16. What do you value most in a friendship? Honesty, consistent connection and fun!

17. What is your most treasured memory? I was little and each family members indulge to paint our family dreams out loud before we went to sleep. It involves having a house with a stream of clean water. I would love to build that house in Switzerland, they really have a naturally clean water.

18. What is your most terrible memory? Ignoring the pain of my father while he’s telling me and my sisters that our mother is cheating. In my mind, you pushed her away and you’ve caused her so much pressure to satisfy your material desire.

19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why? I’ll meet more people and talk about moments of life. Write a book about love.

20. What does friendship mean to you? Friendship is a relationship between two people who will only want the best for the other and being there to give what’s possible without judgment and expectation.

21. What roles do love and affection play in your life? Love and affection sustain me to live, without it, I’ll be depressed and no point of being alive.

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items. (1) Loving, (2) Optimistic, (3) Philosophical, (4) Adventurous and (5) Appreciative of beautiful things.

23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s? My earliest part of my childhood is pretty happy and comfortable and my teens is a little rocky when my parents no longer see success the same way. Since our parents passed, my siblings and I were very close and support one another. I could say I have a normal and happy childhood because we eat breakfast and dinner together, we go on vacation and were there for one another.

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother? There are so many great things about my mother and we do love and respect one another. I’m grateful that she did everything she could to provide for our safety and to have my own voice to live the life I desire.


25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling … “ We like being alive, loving and creating.

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share …” honest intimacy.

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know. Honesty and willingness to go to distant.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met. Lighthearted that I feel the ease of life.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life. I was so stressed out and wearing a tight dress that I threw up in Nobu.

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself? In front of another person is with my sibling while watching a tv series (I cry too easily). By myself, while writing this list (I cry too easily because I write with my heart).

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already. Not giving up on life.

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about? Rape

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet? My siblings are the two most important people in my life and they know how much I love them so there’ll be no regrets if I leave tonight.

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why? My wallet with debit and credit cards and identification, being practical so I can stay in a hotel.

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why? My siblings. I couldn’t imagine losing them.

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen. I still have occasional fear about future security and maintaining to live a comfortable life.

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