Yor Ryeter

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[1: 1,491 of 10,000] The Madness of Unconsciousness

In Aphorism, Article on June 8, 2015 at 12:51 PM

The world spins in madness unless a man chooses to live in consciousness. -Yor Ryeter


I have done something I do not regret. I don’t know where the courage came from to have done it but I relied that it was the right thing to do though painful. It has two faces, telling the truth yet breaking a trust. I was convinced that I was helping to relieved an agony of the unknown to be able to cure a wound that has been deliberately neglected because of fear.

The man who committed a mistake and who I broke his trust hated me. The woman I freed from her incessant longing for truth betrayed me. Now I wonder what does this teach me when the man who hated me threat to harm me for my decision.

I learn that accusations especially when false should not affect me. It was the first time that I have understood that what a person judged others could actually be a true reflection of his own. I am being condemned and yet instead of fighting back and devising a way to get back, I surrender on my knees that he realises what’s worth fighting for.

I meddled because no honest man deserves to be treated with disrespect when there might possibly be a way to cease the piling lies. And yet a man who is jealous and in pain could still betray a friend; but is it a waste if the value of honesty was upholded?

I am sorry if I have started havoc but I am not apologetic for being truthful to the right person who needs answer. I told friends and family of my challenge and they advised that I stay away from these people, and I understand their concern, but I know in my heart that I wish them peace, courage, kindness, and may the true love within them outweigh the challenges that they face so not to succumb to being fearful, deceitful, and mad as an immediate action.

[1: 1,413 of 10,000] Careful When Citing Example

In Article on March 15, 2015 at 10:04 AM

One’s writing requires integrity. In these days of Internet where people find it fun to quote someone’s story is quite easy, some writers even commit the mistake of putting unsuspecting fraud in their book, like for instance Lance Armstrong.

Lance Armstrong

He proved in action that he was a champion for 7 consecutive times in a cycling competition, which we later find out that he was using drugs to actually make that happen. We believed he is capable, with the additional sensational story that he was battling an illness. It is quite disappointing to cite supposedly great people to inspire us all that we can do the impossible; I remember one book that I adore that cited Lance as an example and for a bit to me the author loses its credibility. It is difficult to know for sure that people are who we perceived to be. Heck even our own perceptions change depending on own current circumstance! So what do we do? We just need to be forgiving. We all make mistakes and only through making a lot of mistakes (hopefully not the same holes over and over) that give us the insights and right instincts.

What do we come up with the Armstrong story? Yes we couldn’t forget that he was doping and lying but someday, someone really great, an honest to goodness cyclist could prove that winning Le Tour de France for even more than 7 consecutive times is possible – maybe soon! Or we could believe in ourselves that we don’t always need other people to strive harder for greatness, we just need to believe in ourselves, we are a miracle individually, imagine a tiny sperm and egg cells united and boom you are developed into a beautiful human being, that should be a great basis for greatness and what we do everyday should be a testament to honouring our way to greatness. I’m saying way because unless we live to serve with true love, then reexamine why do you exist at all.


[1: 1,342 of 10,000] Why People Lie?

In Article on August 23, 2014 at 8:45 AM

It is fascinating to find different people who also have different opinion about the act itself. Lying is when you make up things that aren’t true; there couldn’t be any blacker or whiter than that definition. I actually met a person who says jazzing things up doesn’t crucially mean lying (say what?!)

I found this quote from Gotti that perfectly explains why people lie, it says –

John Gotti on Lying


He is absolutely right. I am not not guilty of lying but as much as I can I tell the truth because I should not be afraid or try not to screw up in the first place so nothing needs covering up. We lie because usually we don’t want to be humiliated, be in a compromising situation, or to simply rise above with what our ego craves us to be.

Next time we feel like lying, how about we try to –


A clear conscience makes a happy life and it makes us not question the integrity of other people and actually attract honest people like us. I never lied too much in my life that I could still remember all those times that I lied just to get ahead or just to avoid being scolded like a helpless kid, and it’s not comforting, it is better off unloaded and cleared. I am doing my very best that I no longer want to collect more lies to remember.

[1: 976 of 10,000] I Don’t Know What You’re Thinking

In Aphorism on March 31, 2013 at 12:00 AM

I wish I can read minds. It may probably hurt me but it would be refreshing to know what a person really thinks without a hint of lie.