I have always thought people will take advantage of my kindness. I have feared that men would misunderstood my sweet demeanour so I’ve build a thick and high boundary. I don’t like to be associated with anybody who will not contribute to the betterment of my being. I snob and acting snotty to negative people who cross my every waking day. I have mirrored people to get back at them especially if it’s negative.
Forgive me.
With you holding my hand, I shall trust without judgment. I shall understand with compassion. I shall listen to your voice speaking to my soul that I do not need to expect and only see the ill-fitted. I shall believe for the love and goodness you have instilled in our hearts because you created us out of your LOVE. I shall be gracious and kind to men who just wanted to be in my world, to listen to my thoughts, and be blessed and glorious of receiving my time.
I am not afraid anymore to share myself to honour you. You have filled me with so much greatness that I shall not contain it for the very few. May these words that you have allowed me to create goes a long way to kindle our spirits with hope and faith… all these only for your glory.
I love you.
With deepest gratitude that I could smile, your daughter,
I never thought that I would reach my adult years with lots of hyperventilating moment, losing control, and is that what mid-life crisis feels like?
Everything that I have gathered to learn over the years are starting to get questioned; then I feel like I am in oblivion. Is this adult life?
I am a believer of magic and I am not stopping to be stressed out for the rest of my adult life so I am encouraging myself to chill, forgive, and be kind even if I am pissed off. And darn I am being tested every time I thought I am in perfect control. My ears turn red, my blood starts to boil, and then I pat my back to deflate.
I can do anything because the limit does not exist. It was a bit crazy finding the perfect picture and starting it off with the “Mean Girls” for a beautiful truth like “Limitless” but that line is absolutely fitting to our life!
The only limit and boundary that we should set is NOTHING especially if we want our life to flourish. Sleeping everyday is not giving in to limitation because I now agree that it is an integral part of the magnificent workmanship of a human being. We should not worry that we enjoy life and invite the possibilities of expounding greatness through pouring our love and our best in every thing that we do.
Setting no boundaries is paving our own ways; nothing about not making mistakes but keep trying new things until we get it right and then on to the next project for continuously discovering as what else this human race can crazily God-good achieve. Isn’t that exciting? Just the initial invitation that we are limitless, think about it, grow.
God has used greatness, out of this world logistics. God has cleared the earth. God can do anything to right what is wrong. God is magical. God loves all of us without measure and question in ways we can never comprehend. The best of all we were given the option to choose.
Then what do I do? I overthink everything and starting to become boring for trying to be always righteous? Am I destined for greatness if I can’t even hear my own voice anymore? I ran around too often and too fast than focusing to simply enjoy living. I shall honour Him and love Him as He surprises me with His kisses and unimaginable blessings.
If you have a daughter and you have not seen the movie Taken, well now is the time! My Mom saw it first in our family and immediately she insisted demanded that we, her three daughters, her only three children, most especially to my youngest sister who loves to travel, made sure that we see the movie and understand it by heart.
Taken is the best suspense thriller movie ever! Or is it Liam the best father a distressed daughter could ever hope for to come rescue and save the freaking day.
I would probably tell my child unless your dad is a real life Bryan Mills then you wouldn’t made me stop worrying that you won’t make the misjudgment to trust a stranger. No more arguments, you’re not leaving the house until I am sure that there will be no danger. Well, the truth is, I will probably let my child go and I trust that God sends his angels to protect her every single step of her beautiful life.
Best dramatic line ever – “I don’t know who you are. I don’t know what you want. If you are looking for ransom, I can tell you I don’t have money. But what I do have are a very particular set of skills; skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like you. If you let my daughter go now, that’ll be the end of it. I will not look for you, I will not pursue you. But if you don’t, I will look for you, I will find you, and I will kill you.”
I love the speech of J.K. Rowling at Harvard’s Commencement in 2008.
Three things stayed with me –
1. Only a fool can romanticise being poor.
It is not acceptable to say I am fine with no money, can barely eat, no shelter to rejuvenate, and barely making it at the end of the day! She is right that being poor is not a good state ; that’s why I love the power of the universe where there are enough resources for everyone. Absolutely no reason why not everyone can be rich and successful; the only thing hindering us and our wealth is our fear and inaction.
2. Blaming your parents has expiration.
People laughed when she uttered that thought but she was right. If we are under the strict jurisdiction of our parents then it is valid but as we grow up, it is in our RESPONSIBILITY to choose the path that would lead us living our dream. We are our own roots, trunk, leaves, and fruits.
3. Imagination to feel and to emphatize with others.
This is a beautiful gift that all human being could do and makes us human and an innovator. A creator to keep us connected and be good with one another.