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[1: 1,303 of 10,000] Sad Dreams

In Journal on February 15, 2014 at 2:17 AM

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Papa and Mama were frequent visitors in my dreams. Is this my way of dealing with my broken heart? And is that’s their way to guide me that I will be all right? I even avoid sleeping because I don’t want to admit that I needed them even if it’s in a dream… for a while.

I believe that everything will be all right. How can’t it not be when I know I am loved and I am capable to love. My heart will heal and it’ll get prettier, stronger, and keep marching forward.

[1: 1,302 of 10,000] Behaving Correctly

In Journal on February 14, 2014 at 1:37 AM

I surpassed Valentine without greeting him unlike last year wherein I didn’t let the day passed without blowing love towards him. He just married yesterday (surprisingly with sadness, teary eyes after the ceremony, and is that hesitation) so I think I still remember my promise, I have behaved correctly. I did not confide with my tequila afterwards, I have behaved correctly. Best Friends I just have to work on my respect towards him. I couldn’t be annoyed when the love is gone can’t I. He is an erratic negative person who forgot to calm down when pressure strikes so now that I no longer fancy him I am challenged to care for him… to extend my patience and be emphatic. How can I be compassionate when I fear to fall in love all over again? I do have a fighting facade but when I dig in my heart, I just have a heart that melts for every drop of kindness, sweetness, and loving persuasion to get pulled into his gravity.

[1: 1,301 of 10,000] It’s Adultery

In Journal on February 13, 2014 at 12:50 AM

Black WeddingIs marriage really scary?

I think committing with somebody you truly love doesn’t feel like a death sentence. The man I am crushing on for quite sometime tied the knot today. He converted into a Muslim so technically as long as he can afford and the first wife agrees he can still marry for the second up to the fourth time. He actually needs to marry more than once because he’s high maintenance and yet I don’t interest to be part of THE WIVES.

I never dream to come second or become a mistress. I should never dare to fantasize about him anymore because no matter how I flip the notion, it’s adultery. I am not going to follow the footsteps of my mother, sister, or cousin and I shall never break not only a woman’s heart but a family’s union. Before I burn my soul, I am saying BYE.

“No more flirting. No more day dreaming. No more picking fight. No more feeling like I got a special spot in your heart. Thank you for getting married today. I am sincerely very happy for you.”

Nothing is pinching my heart. I am more than just fine.

[1: 1,300 of 10,000] Books I Now Read

In Article on February 12, 2014 at 12:21 AM

Book Lover

They are not fictional, I most likely to read real life books that would improve my skills, teach me new things, and make me feel I am uncovering new understanding to expound my life for the best.

I still fancy Sophie Kinsella but I am looking at the following new books to read if only they are all available in my favourite book store in Dubai:

  1. WomanCode: Perfect Your Cycle, Amplify Your Fertility, Supercharge Your Sex Drive, and Become a Power Source – Alisa Vitti
  2. The Four Agreements – Don Miguel Ruiz
  3. The War of Art – Steven Press field
  4. Start With Why – Simon Sinek
  5. Leaders Eat Last – Simon Sinek
  6. Living Buddha, Living Christ 10th Anniversary Edition – Thich Nhat Hanh
  7. Living the 80/20 Way: Work Less, Worry Less, Succeed More, Enjoy More – Richard Koch
  8. Good to Great – Jim Collins
  9. The Leader Who Had No Title – Robin Sharma
  10. Stop Saying You’re Fine – Mel Robbins

[1: 1,299 of 10,000] It Takes 45 Posts

In Article on February 11, 2014 at 11:38 PM

Yor's Internal CloudI use the Daily Post’s named yearly tag, I started in 2011 with PostADay2011 and so for 2014 it’s a new tag. At the beginning of the year, PostADay2014 was no where to be found from my internal cloud, I was getting anxious when will I automatically see it in my most used tags, then I discovered its on the 45th posts!!!

Right now, my cloud’s screenshot is the image at the left, and it is a lot more convenient. It is also fun to look at it as I may kind of gauge the subjects that are close to my writing heart.

What does your tag looked like? Which ones have the biggest font size?

 

[1: 1,298 of 10,000] Elegance

In Article on February 10, 2014 at 10:53 PM

Elegance

There is always a way to do things elegantly from sipping a cup of tea, going down the stairs, or picking up things.

When no one is looking or so I thought, I try to be more carefree, lazy, and act without definite calculation.

It is pleasant to be elegant, not only to my self’s benefit but for others around you.

Elegance is about perfection and an admirable sight. It means I have given my best in such finesse.

[1: 1,297 of 10,000] I’ve Earned “MISS”

In Article on February 9, 2014 at 10:04 PM

Title feeds the EGO but as Robin Sharma taught, you can lead without a Title.

RoandCo_Portfolio_Honor

At 25 I have earned my title “MISS” at work.  It feels good and honourable. I also know that it comes with responsibilities. It feels even better that I don’t push people to call me that; it is up to them if they feel like it. Although on occasional circumstance I am a bit hurt when I am not addressed properly when I felt I am definitely a superior and I am around subordinates. I don’t like arrogance especially if I know they have not earned by respect. It certainly roots to my Chinese upbringing where respect and honour are signified with proper title. I never want my younger sisters to ever call me by my first name, they call me “Achie,” which means “Big Sister” in Chinese; when I’ll have kids they will call me “Mom” and never by my first name.

I once heard a very strong and progressive American company where they don’t use “SIR” for seniors but simply with their FIRST NAME. I am indifferent but I should be open to the idea that title isn’t important if I could hear from the tone that there is respect and jobs get perfectly completed.

[1: 1,296 of 10,000] The Day Is Today

In Journal on February 8, 2014 at 10:36 PM

What does it mean by living the dream for me? It would be…

Barrister Chair

  1. Being a business tycoon that gives generous employment for people working and living their passion.
  2. Living in my own house I’ve designed.
  3. Having a gorgeous grey barrister chair.
  4. At peace, smiling, and full of wisdom.
  5. Sharing my love with everyone around me.

[1: 1,295 of 10,000] Diana, A Movie

In Review on February 7, 2014 at 6:35 PM

Could it be true?

Everything that I have seen on the movie Diana?

Has she fallen in love with a doctor who gave her more inspiration to do great work?

Diana

Nothing in this world is a confidence isn’t it?

We are all connected and every action that we do elicit a reaction. It’s a domino that a single move touches another person. It may be true or not but it gave such an inspiration to see a beautiful person to have fallen in love and used an old trick of making him jealous. It is amazing how the one person he considered important made her decide to do an endearing gesture to honour a doctor he admired.

Life is full of complexities and yet simplicity that things could be dealt with true love and a grateful attitude.

She need not be tagged as a Princess, but she is and she had lived loving and truly grateful.

[1: 1,294 of 10,000] Being Racist

In Article on February 6, 2014 at 6:00 PM

My soul mate, my best friend, and one of my dearest sisters is currently in a relationship with a man we all learned to categorised as “not worthy” enough to be part of our family.

Racist Eggs

I’m half Filipino and half Chinese so I certainly understood being different and yet here I am being too judgemental at my sister who chose a nationality I could never imagined to become part of our lineage. Right now I find no reason to ever go to their home country in my lifetime. Will I really want my soon to be nieces and nephews to be mixed with that race?

I am proud of the blood lines that runs through my vein, I don’t really think their kind is beneath me; I just don’t want to be associated with them most especially thinking one of my loved ones kisses one. Eeewwww!

I am racist and I should not because it is wrong. I am not racist to everyone, I like gay men, I like purple people, I try to defend people who are bullied, and yet I can’t bring myself to like this man for my sister. Am I just being protective that she deserves someone better? I think so; even if she think he’s different from the rest of his kinds. It is not my place but I can’t meet him; I am still hoping they break up!