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[1: 1,969 of 10,000] Have You Answered ‘What’s My Purpose In Life’?

In Journal on July 14, 2019 at 5:07 PM


At different times in my life, I have pulled out different answers and seek different places to help me come up with my answer.

The very first thing that made sense for me is I am here to spread the good news that there’s a God who created everything and I believe loves every human being. God is all-knowing that provides peace and the connection with everyone and everything. I don’t know everything and I don’t even have a language to describe my relationship with God but I’m contented for hearing about Him and I am spending the rest of my life deepening my relationship with Him through others and everything. The moment I have the sense of connection with God, feel His love and witness His miracles; I would like to share it with everyone so they may experience my joy.

Then added is I am here to create like my creator. I have a gift that can make me come alive whenever I am in the zone doing it. That whenever I am authentic for being myself, it inspires others to do great things. All because I am enjoying being me.

I am here to experience human life. To live in the present and love what is. To not believe the story that I create in my mind that is obsessed with worries, scarcity mentality, shame, and perfection.

My latest answer is I’m here to heal. I believed that people are born perfect but like my story, as I grow older, I have absorbed different pain including the pain of my parents that I forget my essence. I now believe that the first order is to take care of me and heal. To forgive myself and to examine my thoughts in order to make better choices in the present.

How about you, what is your purpose?

Photo by Michael Heuser on Unsplash

[1: 1,884 of 10,000] You Can’t Save Everybody

In Journal on June 6, 2017 at 10:14 PM


Is it really preposterous to believe we can’t save everybody?

I believe everybody is unique hence every single one has different needs and yet don’t we really all want the same thing? Is there one ultimate destination that we wanted? Do we really want LOVE but we have various ways of rediscovering and reliving it? Is it important that we are one; or are we good as we are even with our flaws that could propel us to our greatness?

What is greatness? Is it finding the peace amidst the percepted chaos? Why do we get lost? Why do we succumb to evil or maltreatment? Why don’t we immediately feel conscientious as our compass to kindness?

Why do we doubt our essence that we are perfect, whole, and complete? Why did we forget that we are incredibly perfect, loved, and capable to love?

Does anybody really need saving? Maybe not saving, but we need reminders of who we truly are within so we can unlearn the things that clouded the real us. One a time, let us remind one another, and one at a time we do what’s loving (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).

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[1: 1,787 of 10,000] The Greatest Gift You Can Give To The World Seems Selfish But It’s Not

In Article on October 30, 2016 at 11:30 PM

The greatest gift that you can give to the world seems selfish but it’s really not because the answer is doing what you love, what makes you feel alive, and what you know in your soul is right, despite the fears, the doubts, and all the challenges that hinder you to pursue it and live it.

Do what you LOVE

I am not simply calling it your passion, it’s not necessarily what everybody thinks is obvious, but it is something that gives you joy, to still have the energy to pour even if you think you’ve depleted all the ounce of will power from your body, because it is your endowed calling or having to live a purposeful life.

It could be this journey for this season, another path for another time, but always it makes you feel alive. Even without knowing, you invite people to thank you for just living your life with love, and even without intending, you are making the world better than you found it.

Without honoring the call, you lose the appetite to get up in the morning, you speak without substance, you breathe without jubilance, and it doesn’t only harm you but it radiates sadness into the world. So stop! I invite you to live your dream without buts, the excuse of when it’s the right time, because the right time will always be keep moving towards it every single day, baby steps as it may be but you got to accomplish one baby step at a time, until you’ve reached it.

Unfold the dream that was planted into your soul, realize and live it. Go on, it’s in there, you don’t need to live a life full of hate, sadness, resentment, judgment, because when you’re happy everyday, you open your heart to love others and everything around you. Solutions emerge instead of more problems to solve; compassion and forgiveness are exercised and positive vibe spreads, roots, and stays to let another love blooms and breed.

Photo source: http://www.moritzfinedesigns.com/love-free-printable


[1: 1,729 of 10,000] I Watch People

In Article on June 21, 2016 at 11:33 PM


What I know is that the ultimate way to truly feel successful in this lifetime is to serve the people. I examined myself and I know that I don’t like everyone. Then it occurred to me that I don’t have to although a part of me questioned why couldn’t I.

While enjoying my late lunch at a mall’s food court today, I was watching the people. I wondered what are they thinking and how could I like this person despite not liking how he looked like. I do have the habit of finding what’s beautiful about a person without necessarily knowing who he is. I even think that God lives within each of us and that makes us all connected. Could I be capable of loving everyone, or may be at least be polite and move along…

I don’t like to pretend and I really don’t see the sense of being too nice to everybody, I couldn’t do that, it’s impossible especially if everybody is dealing their own baggages. Maybe in time? This is bothering me, maybe I need to redefine the type of successful life that I like. Maybe so.

[1: 1,700 of 10,000] The Simplest Answer For A Man’s Purpose

In Journal on April 29, 2016 at 12:44 AM

Oh So Pretty

I am being haunted to seek for answers to these questions again: What is my purpose in this world? Is it really leaving a legacy and for what good reason other than the selfish self preservation?

When I am so deep into my own selfish thoughts, I do lose track of what is important. It dawned on me that it can be very plain, very simple. I can start with “What can I do to leave this world a little better than I found it?”

A simple, smart, and truly a glorious act could be the beginning. Some things can’t be done until somebody proved it could be, and then another one who does it better. Change, either in action or perspective, is inevitable with a matter of effort, perseverance, and commitment.

May we have the courage to give a piece of our love to the world. Let us have the audacity to look on where we can use our gifts, our lives, our time to a good use to make this world better than we found it.

[1: 1,562 of 10,000] My Greatest Dreams

In List on August 18, 2015 at 9:11 AM


Right now my greatest dreams are –

  1. Be spiritually awakened and enlighted. It would be nice to be living always in the present. To never be bothered by other’s judgment and to never judge anyone anymore. To be impeccable with my words, to not take anything personally, to be skeptic in finding the truth, and to always do my best.
  2. Contribute in making sure that all children feel loved especially those with separated or divorced parents. To tell the children that they are a miracle, a blessing, and loved. I may need to go back to school for this and I would be motivated to learn if that would make me capable to serve with the right knowledge and skills.
  3. Award winning and best selling author because then I know that my books reach more readers and I am able to impart my heart and story with good intentions. My intentions for writing is to be honest, to be vulnerable, and to stir change for the better.
  4. Being self-sufficient. I labor with love and integrity. Seeing my work as a calling that I don’t depend and borrow from anyone. I will be responsible with my finances and spend what I can afford and what is really necessary. I will be free from getting attached to material things and the psyche of status symbol.
  5. To support my relatives by teaching them to live an abundant life not from asking for money but in creating wealth so they will be self-sufficient. To have the wisdom to teach with patience and support them with love. To emphatise but not to tolerate simply giving without the value of true earning.
  6. Plant lots of paper trees because I still love writing on paper and it’s responsible to replace them.
  7. Being deliberate to only exude positive energy to the world. It’s good for me and for others and there’s really no other way to live harmoniously with one another. To truly love everyone and myself as I am loved by God unconditionally.
  8. To stay healthy in mind, body, soul, and spirit. To make gradual improvements everyday for the better because as I grow older each day, my composition changes, and I want the positive change to happen and not dwell on what are deteriorating.
  9. Be innovative and creative in building multiple businesses in collaboration with my sisters. We’ll build empires that employees will be grateful and passionate to be part of.
  10. To promote equality worldwide and show the light for compassion and collaboration. To erase the line of separation and declaration of territories. To build a nation that’s one and tapping into our individual gifts in making it a beautiful world.

Seems like I got a purpose to live right there and it’s my WHY on having a smile on my face in seeing the sun rises whenever I wake up in the morning. It’s a good life and we are all anointed to be passionate on things that we can change.

[1: 1,461 of 10,000] I Am Feeling Special

In Article on May 9, 2015 at 1:18 PM

Do you ever feel like you are meant to do something in this world? Don’t you feel that you are called for greatness beyond your imagination? Is it lunacy that it is what I have been feeling, more strongly right now than ever? I couldn’t paint it in my head but I feel it in my deepest being.

I am thankful that the question finally came and I am asking what am I supposed to do in this life. I am more thankful that I kind of know where should I be headed. There is hunger in my life and I will not accept to live a mediocre life. I will not pursue living without connecting with the people around me. I know the road would be treacherous but every pause is meant to teach me to be courageous so when the quest reaches its climax I would be ready and equipped to conquer it.

I know it is a “mystery” of why I am really alive especially if God loves me so much that He supports every decisions that I make in my life. What I will vow is that I will live with love and passion, nothing less.

Work With Your Heart

[1: 1,438 of 10,000] Will You Live Tomorrow?

In Article on April 16, 2015 at 1:01 PM

Have you ever wonder if tomorrow you would still be living?

It’s funny how I have never fully appreciate breathing, that I am alive. It is one of those things that I take for granted. I always thought, tomorrow is just another shot, which I either endure or go through. Endure when depressed. Go through when aimless. I have not accomplished my purpose and I am not being pressured to do it, so why bother to expect so much from my lazy self?

Although there is another route, a positive one where the possibilities are endless. Regardless what tasks are supposed to be done, sleeping everyday is still to be considered, I watched the 4 episodes of the new Game of Thrones last night, I wrote a special greeting card for my sister, and pack the care package to Australia, which I dropped off this morning at the courier company, and today my battery is running a little low and I’m not drinking another gigantic cup of coffee.

It takes proper discipline to focus my mind to the correct course. See the photo below –

focusThat above photo is usually how my scattered mind function even when I lay in bed without the clear red coloured “focus” at the centre.

No Focus

It is ridiculously tiring and nonsense, I let my mind jump from one repeatedly obsessive thoughts to another that do not boost my “good feeling” because nothing good is accomplished; eventually I end up distracted and the self loathing begins. Is it the creative in me or destructive in me, that I replay scenes that have happened, revise with a twist, or never did and kept loop playing? No wonder having painful experience gets planted deeply into my soul because I let it be.

Focus is Present

I am now practising to keep my mind focused in one good thing at a time. It is the rule that if it is not helpful, then drop it. Blurred everything and aim for the red “focus” word at the centre. If I start in just one good thing, I could finish anything (including curing my procrastination weakness) and if I put a little more effort and lay the ladder to a wonderful goal, it gets done. Commit to one and for the love of God I forgive myself and move on.

Just like when I write a blog, I start, get side ways to Facebook and Instagram or reading articles here and there. I rely on I should feel right to finish a post, it is always the case but if I really start just thinking about the topic, I could finish faster and move on to the next task or next greatness.

If I die today and come back as a ghost tomorrow, I have no one to hold responsible but myself. It is stupid! The only time I will not be grateful for my life is because I have not found my purpose, I did not do my best, and so now that I know my track, I set my goals, live in the present, enjoy the sound of my keyboard, and the music playing in my ears. I am writing this in the middle of a mall, with strangers sitting around me, I am not looking at them and that Carolina Herrera green chiffon day dress, until I hit that good damn “Publish” button. 😛

[1: 1,425 of 10,000] Is That It?

In Journal on March 31, 2015 at 10:51 PM

Is that the message that I have been waiting for that makes it feel right? It feels right.

I woke up this morning with a fire inside me because I have a purpose that I will have to work on. I finally named it and boy now the work has to start. It’s going to be an ode, I don’t know how to do it, but I believe the guidance will come. I am meeting somebody tomorrow and my hopes are high that this is the right track.

I strongly want to be there for delicate young people and offer my love, friendship, and protection in the best light and proper side that I could ever be. Is this going to last? Will I ever give up? Is this just an excuse to focus on a different obsession? My intentions are pure, and I just don’t like to leave another Albert* unloved.

One life and I don’t know when is it going to end, so I shouldn’t be limiting myself, I should aim to do a bit more than I could even ever imagine. I have to start with what feels right.

All the best Yor! The new adventure begins.

*An orphan, sweet child, that was used for a scientific experiment.


[1: 1,424 of 10,000] I Am Searching For My Breakthrough

In Journal on March 25, 2015 at 7:22 PM

I resigned from my job last month and I told my 34 year old single self that you have the whole month of March 2015 to figure out what path to take next. Is 34 the age for woman’s mid life crisis? Or I just didn’t get the memo on how to live a care free life?

I just recently started sending my CV out even if I know I didn’t figure out about how to truly live a meaningful life. I have been reading proper books from people who I think has so much wisdom. I have been watching a lot of TED Talks where I could pick up bright ideas. I think I am almost getting it but I am not breaking through into my AHA moment. I am walking in a semi dark room it’s alarming me. I know my bills are coming next month and I don’t want to max out my credit card while my car loan is still ongoing until 2016. I am not worried about money, I am alarmed for being blind in what is the proper track. How am I going to be useful in this lifetime?

rapunzel_short_blonde_hair_by_johngreeko-d6c6wz1I see my batch mates who are married with kids. I see them go on vacation and happy on the photos that they’ve posted in social media. I often wonder if are they really happy? Is that it? Are they contented? Am I supposed to follow that route? I have problem being close to new people, if it’s necessary I can be the friendliest person in the world, but given a choice, I just couldn’t trust people too easily. Maybe that is my problem, I wanted to pick the people who I wanted before I even consider them worthy of my time. My EGO is so huge, I am meant to be locked in a castle with no door and a short hair.

I want a meaningful life. I want to be truly of service. My very recent heartache probably detriment my eyesight that I am worthy for me and for others. That I should never let the people I love to be the source of my reason to move forward. That I should not wait to be rescued but be the hero that I needed. I’ve always wanted to study art, then I thought I wanted to write, I also want to be in business, and yet I am not quite so sure I knew my message anymore. Maybe it’s VARIETY because I was never satisfied with just one thing, I may focus on LOVE as a theme but I should be talking about everything like this blog, I do not limit myself with just mindless mumbling, it should have a little culture and talk about serious subjects, or talk about fantasy, or incredulous vulnerabilities.

Thank goodness I still know how to appreciate tiny projects that has been going on in my life. I am grateful that I have my sissy learning to drive on her own now that I am imprisoning myself at home. I am grateful that our laundry caught up just in time. I am grateful that I am cooking real food everyday. I am grateful that I sleep properly. I am grateful that I left the love of my life but I am not his so I’ve stopped the lunacy. I am grateful that I have applied to jobs that are promising of a happy career life. I am grateful that I should make the Greece vacation this year. I am grateful that I will figure out this life before March ends. Shit I only have until tomorrow!